As I was taking photos, I was on a patio that was terraced down to another level. I saw this step in front of me,
much like a step, you know, that I've taken millions of times in my life. But
this step was a little deeper than I had
thought and when I went to take the step
I, misjudged it and lost my balance and I
went over a 15-foot wall. Right away, what
I realized was that I had no feeling
from the waist down and couldn't move,
which is pretty terrifying realization.
And I had surgery same day of the
accident. And after the surgery, I got
feeling back in my legs. I spent 17 days
in the hospital in Italy, so we came home
and I flew directly from the Italian
hospital to KU Med and I arrived here and
was here close to a month.
Really, he moved well. You know, I mean,
it's all relative, I guess, in a sense, but
his sit-to-stand, he did a great job. The
biggest thing was the lower extremities
from the knee below weren't functioning
like we would like him to to have a
normalized gait pattern. And so, I think
we knew from the beginning that was our
initial battle, the fight was to
hopefully start to get movement back
below the knee. It's always exciting when
we start to see movement that we haven't
seen before. He started to activate and
have some movement and it's just such an
exciting, because it changes the course.
The first time that Tamra with her hand
on my leg, you know, told me to try move my foot and she felt a muscle firing and we
didn't actually see my foot move at
first, but she felt the muscle firing
and I... it was like I wanted to come out
of my skin, I was so overjoyed, I was so
blessed, I was just freaked out. I don't
think I was your nurse that day, was I?
It was a call light and I came down to help
with something, you know, good and I
think was in the room a couple different
times and I thought, well, I don't know I
just had a feeling I wanted to give, I
tried a little reflexology, I would give a
foot rub, you know, just simple stuff like
that. He said he hadn't been moving his
feet. And I give it, you know, and he couldn't, didn't say much and, but he said felt
good, you know. And Joe's being really
modest. A couple hours after that foot
massage, my feet moved for the first time.
I remember hitting the call light and
saying, you know, get down here fast and
I'm sure they're thinking there's some
emergency or something and, you know, the
emergency was my feet had moved. And I
wanted to tell the world about it. You
know, obviously, it's gratifying. I felt
like he thought I was walking on water
there at first. He's being willing and
open to have something good happen, you
know. And the hard work he's put into it
makes it makes it happen. I mean, the
person in charge is a patient. I've met
so many people through this experience
and I would say throughout or across all
of those people, there's one quality or
when characteristic and they are
amazingly, amazingly caring, positive,
encouraging, supportive people that are
drawn to this profession and the
collective support and positive attitude
and encouragement from all those people
makes a tough
journey for a patient much more doable,
much easier, because you have this
amazing team of people around you. So
much reassurance is important, I think
and Sam's strong wheels made a big
difference. But I saw it in his eyes and
he wasn't gonna quit. Sam, you did a lot
of confidence and most of our patients
doing that you can do this and giving
that moment. And, so providing that
opportunity for success so they can
start to believe in themselves that they
can do it when they get home. Probably
the most important thing is to really
believe in yourself and believe that you
can and will get better. And with the
help of all these people around you, who
have great skill and training and great
belief in you to work your hardest and
give it your all and, you know, my
favorite quote now of Winston Churchill:
"Never, never, never give up." It's really
been a rallying cry for me. It's a hard
journey. There are days that your body
hurts or you're just so tired. It's a
journey that's like probably everything
in life: there's ups and downs, but this
journey feels like there's even more
challenges and more obstacle in front of
you, but have faith keep working hard and
never, never, never give up.
Blown away, overwhelmed with great pride.
And also very emotional. All these people
that I've met through this journey.
Amazing stories, amazing things that
people have overcome and to be chosen
as the honoree for the year, I'm not sure
I'm deserving, but I'm very grateful, I'm very
honored. I'm humbled by it. I hope I can,
through example and through further
motivation of others, live up to the honor.